View Point- The Dive Buddy issue

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It is unfortunate Mike that someone you knew lost their life while diving.  It is definitely sad, but chances are that it was some form of diver error.  I don't think it is fair to generalize that it was because of technical diving.  Regardless of what level certification someone has, if you start breaking commonly accepted rules and training guidelines, you are just rolling the dice.....  It all starts with overconfidence and not recognizing or understanding the limitations of your mind, body and equipment.

Its good to hear that you were instrumental in saving someone.  Your quick actions probably meant the difference between life and death for that individual.  That was a pretty crappy position for him to put you in.  It is unfortunate that the individual was not a good buddy and saddled you with that responsibility.  I believe that it is good "buddy protocol" to inform the person you are diving with of any condition or limitation that could possibly have an impact while underwater.  You have options at that point.

Unless you know all the people on the boat, you are taking your chances with "insta buddy".  If you want to reduce your chances of getting a dud for a buddy, look for the people who are NOT constanly screwing with their gear and don't have crap strewn all over.  The people who are experienced know boat etiquette, get on the boat, stow their gear and get out of the way.  They are prepared before getting on the boat and are usually hanging out watching for the divers who demonstrate clusterf^ckery.  So if you want to dive with the experienced folks, do the same and they will probably find you.  Otherwise, introduce yourself, be honest and ask questions, just don't get hung up on a "mouth". ;D